“We just need help with communication problems” …said every person who stepped into couple’s therapy ever. People ask for tools, tips and tricks. I haven’t heard this one yet but I’m sensing someone will soon ask me for a “communication hack.” Here’s a little secret: The solution you’re looking for isn’t about learning how to communicate. […]
Connection
When Santa’s Not The Only One With Secrets
Let’s talk Secrets in your relationship. There are big secrets and there are little secrets. Obvious secrets and not so obvious ones. Good secrets – like that gift you’re hiding for your honey – and not so good secrets. I’m all for the good ones, but let’s talk about the others. Sometimes, the big ones […]
Newton’s 3rd Law And Why Your Partner Is Withdrawing
When your partner is withdrawing, what does it mean, and what do you do? I’m going to break down the good news and the bad news about your partner’s withdrawal in your relationship and what to do about it. When your partner is withdrawing, it can feel like they go numb on you, you question […]
Stuck And Disconnected In Love
Something doesn’t feel right in your relationship? Feeling stuck and disconnected? As a successful person this is not your norm. You want to live fully and a connected and satisfying relationship is part of that. Yet something’s not working. What to do? Quit blaming yourself, first of all. Few have learned to get this area […]
Do you have this super skill for relationship success?
Today I’m going to share with you a skill that can go a long way toward relationship success: Slowing down time. I could spend an hour speaking with a distressed couple about a 30 second exchange, because so much happens in those 30 seconds that we aren’t even aware of. How does any progress get made, you […]
Feeling Helpless
This post is for you if you are feeling helpless in your relationship, business or in the world at large. When things don’t go according to plan, or how you’d like them to, or how you think they should, or people in your life operate in a way that you don’t like, a lot of […]