Napoleon Hill, in his classic book Think and Grow Rich, wrote about R. U. Darby and his uncle losing a fortune in gold as a result of quitting. They had actually seen the gold and came back to the site with the proper machinery to find it, but upon digging again, it appeared to be gone. […]
Emotions
I do? Figure out your relationship and say it with confidence.
When you work with couples and people experiencing problems in their relationships, some weeks are better than others. Couples generally come in angry, frustrated and disconnected, and individuals are wrangling with all kinds of fears. But nothing is more rewarding than helping work through these negative feelings to get to the other side. I do […]
Why is he emotionally unavailable?
I’ve been on the phone this week with a number of women who find that their men are emotionally unavailable and shut down. They feel distant, like they can’t communicate, and are lacking passion and connection. Are you with a man who is shut down? Do you wonder why is he emotionally unavailable? I don’t […]
My radio debut was on a sex talk show!
As one esteemed colleague commented on my business Facebook wall, I am a celebrity. I was on the radio this week! I spoke about 3 key ingredients to a healthy relationship and how to achieve them. Hosted by sex coaches Allie Theiss and Scarlet Wylde, “The Passion Zone” is a radio show to help […]
When addiction impacts your relationship
I’m moved to write this post because of an amazing training experience I had over the weekend here in New York City, offered by Michael Barnett, Director of the Atlanta Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy and Jim Thomas, Director of the Colorado Center for Emotionally Focused Therapy. Every time I do more training in EFT, I’m […]
Great new book just in time for 2014
If know me, you probably know that I am passionate about the work of Dr. Sue Johnson, psychologist and developer of the most effective form of couples therapy out there, Emotionally Focused Therapy. The majority of her work is academic, as she spends so much time researching and studying her work with couples. But […]