Your inner critic could be ruining your relationship and you may not even be aware of it. Got intimacy issues? Connection and communication problems? Can’t seem to understand each other? Find yourself walking on eggshells, uncertain how to talk about things together that you feel couples should be able to handle? Is there a growing distance […]
Relationships in Danger/What Not To Do
A 10-Minute Conversation To Revive Your Relationship
Need a relationship revival? Today I’m going to share a quick and easy conversation to have together that will do just that: Revive Your Relationship This conversation to have with each other is not something I learned about in graduate school or in my post-doctoral training to become a couples therapist. It’s actually something […]
RelationTip Tuesday – The Inevitable Part of Your Relationship
This week is about an inevitable part of your relationship – something tying back to a RelationTip about being too nice! Press play to find out what I mean.
What’s beneath her anger
Ever wonder why your significant other rages at you, and not sure what to do? This breaks down what may be beneath her anger. And, also importantly, what you can do about it. Ever glance at your wife as you’re spacing off thinking about something totally unrelated to her, like what you’re going to eat for […]
Is My Marriage Doomed?
Well meaning people out of the blue often reach out to me anonymously and share a few sentences about their relationship and then ask me: “Is my marriage doomed?” I’m not even a psychic nor do I pretend to be one. Even psychics will tell you that ultimately you have free will regardless of your destiny. […]
Time heals all wounds?
One of my biggest pet peeves is the idea that “time heals all wounds,” especially as it relates to injuries in relationships. These four words have caused so many couples so much damage, it’s about time we debunked this myth of time being the cure all for every problem. FORGIVENESS heals wounds, not […]