When you’re in severe relationship distress, it might feel like your world is ending. It can feel like you’re going insane in your relationship. Like Shirley (her name is made up + details are a combination of several clients to protect privacy). She was ready to leave her marriage when she called me last year. […]
Therapy
Keeping Secrets In Your Relationship
Caution: Loaded topic. Are you keeping secrets in your relationship? Before going further about this, let me tell you that most secrets in an intimate relationship if you are long-term committed partners are toxic. Poisonous. Secrets are things you are either keeping from your partner on purpose or explicitly lying to them about. Before going […]
The Miracle Of You
In the last few weeks and months I’ve heard people citing the odds that you were born. I guess it’s because Gary Vaynerchuk started talking about it that everyone is? And here I am doing the same. You don’t need to be a genius to know that the odds of you being here exactly as […]
How to deal with negative people in your life
The question comes up a lot: How do I deal with negative people in my life? The common advice is to just cut them out. Get rid of them. Step away from toxic people. I’m sure you’ve heard that you’re the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with, so why hang […]
Time heals all wounds?
One of my biggest pet peeves is the idea that “time heals all wounds,” especially as it relates to injuries in relationships. These four words have caused so many couples so much damage, it’s about time we debunked this myth of time being the cure all for every problem. FORGIVENESS heals wounds, not […]
Getting Rich & Your Partner’s Mindset with Denise Duffield-Thomas
You know those times when you get to connect with someone you admire and adore? I’m so grateful to be sharing one of those times with you. Enter: Denise Duffield-Thomas, the money mindset mentor for the new wave of online female entrepreneurs, of www.LuckyBitch.com. In October, 2013, I jumped on the “Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp” boat […]