Nothing grows people like love.
And because we’re wired for love, it calls us to step up. It forces us to look at ourselves in new ways, undo old patterns that once served to protect us and open ourselves up.
“The moon has become a dancer at this festival of love.
This dance of light,
This sacred blessing,
This divine love,
beckons us to a world beyond
only lovers can see
with their eyes of fiery passion.
They are the chosen ones
who have surrendered.
Once they were particles of light
now they are the radiant sun.
They have left behind
the world of deceitful games.
They are the privileged lovers
who create a new world
with their eyes of burning passion.”
Rumi
It can be tricky:
While love demands we take responsibility, it requires us to forgive.
It holds us to a higher standard, yet requires the utmost humility.
We think it can hurt, but really, it’s the most rewarding, healing and powerful force there is.
Many turn a blind eye to their struggles in love.
The average couple endures 6 years of distress before getting help in their relationship.
It’s inconvenient to deal with. There’s not enough time. You’re busy building your empire. You’re too anxious about your empire. Or rather, it doesn’t feel safe.
It’s downright scary.
Maybe getting help won’t work?
Maybe it will be a nail in the coffin.
You wonder what the point is. Like you’re opening yourself to more heartache that you just can’t take.
Working on yourself so that you can love and be loved harder than you’ve ever been requires a surrender and a vulnerability that few are willing to undergo.
I can assure you, though, as painful as it may be, once you get through that pain there’s so much greatness on the other side.
As impossible as it may feel at times, it’s possible.
And when you do the work, when you get through the other side, when you allow yourself that true, deep, heartfelt connection to all of you and share that with another?
There’s nothing better.
If you want to live your fullest most joyful life at your greatest potential:
Leave behind the world of deceitful games.
Fully take responsibility for yourself and the creation of your best life.
Allow others to do the same.
Don’t convince yourself that you’re doing anyone any favors by avoiding uncomfortable conversations.
It might feel easier to take the cost on yourself than watch someone squirm in discomfort, whether it’s your lover, a friend or a client, but step up.
In the words of R. Kelly, Step In The Name of Love.
Be strong enough in yourself, grounded enough to realize, you’re not here to save anyone.
You’re not here to bend, acquiesce or support anything less than love.
You’re simply here to love, and be loved, and to do that in a full way requires more of you. It means risking the discomfort, opening to the vulnerability and truly surrendering to the magic of connecting to something greater than you.
It’s what the poets have been writing about all along.
If you’ve struggled with this thing called love, and you’re ready for a change, you just need to decide that you will figure this out.
You’re wired for love.
You just need a little guidance, some support, and someone who can show you what you can’t yet see.
We are at a pivotal time in history when there has never been as great of a scientific understanding of love as there is today.
Where the opportunity to become one of the privileged ones to create a new world has never been so available.
Won’t you join us?
Revolutionize Your Love is one way to get love right by mastering the inner game of love as a woman.
I’m really excited to announce that this 6-week program has ongoing LIVE group calls twice monthly with me. That means you join, do 6-weeks of the program, learn as much as you can about yourself and how to get love right, and also have ongoing access to relationship coaching in your back pocket for as long as I offer it (I see no end in sight at present.)
Our community is wonderful. It would be an honor to have you join if you’d like to revolutionize your love and help us create a new world.
You can start as soon as you sign up, to create a true, healthy and deeply connected relationship whether you’re presently in one or not.
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