You’ve all heard the quote, “a fish is the last to discover water,” or some version of it.
What water are you swimming in?
You probably don’t even know.
In love – are you settling in some kind of relationship less than what you truly deserve because that’s all you know?
In work – are you settling with some kind of J-O-B, career or even a business that isn’t fully lighting you up, and maybe you accept that as “reality”?
With your health, finances, or any other area of your life – are you just USED TO a certain way of being and have accepted that as “reality”?
How would things look if they were a little better?
Challenge your status quo.
In my group program, Revolutionize Your Love, we dive deep into your ingrained patterns and implicit assumptions about love and relationships and what’s been accepted as the norm.
This kind of work is valuable for all areas of your life, but especially in love, since relationships are so central to everything.
To live YOUR best life, never stop questioning.
What can be even better?
Is your pond murky and full of crap that is blinding you to a brighter existence?
Are you circling in a tank when there is a limitless ocean available to you?
You can start with one area of your life at a time, and asking yourself, how can this be better?
How can your relationship be better?
How would YOU be showing up differently if it were better? How would you FEEL differently? What would your relationship look like?
So many people stay stuck, confused and lost in the place of what’s not going well.
You’re only going to get to where you want if you first DEFINE what that is.
In all areas of your life.
Define that Every. Single. Day. Go after it Every. Single. Day.
This can be hard to do on your own.
After all, remember that fish quote?
We don’t know sometimes that the atmosphere within and without us is toxic without seeing alternatives.
So look around.
And find someone to help you make the leap into your preferred reality, and/or help you define that for yourself.
Don’t believe it’s possible?
Just think of all the transformations you’ve already made.
By the way, you started out as sperm and an egg and look at you now!
Let me know in the comments below how you’ve surprised yourself in the past, and WHAT you’re going to call into question as a result of reading this post.
Cheers to thriving in business & love,