{"id":5556,"date":"2016-10-16T20:30:21","date_gmt":"2016-10-17T00:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mybestrelationship.com\/?p=5556"},"modified":"2016-10-16T20:30:21","modified_gmt":"2016-10-17T00:30:21","slug":"spouse-holding-back-business-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mybestrelationship.com\/spouse-holding-back-business-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Is Your Spouse Holding You Back In Business?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>&#8212; Special Video Interview Below &#8212; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you an entrepreneur obsessed with personal growth and your spouse just doesn&#8217;t seem to get it?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re all, <em>&#8220;Thoughts become things! Your mindset has everything to do with success! Let&#8217;s make a vision board together!!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s all, <em>&#8220;You are some kind of crazy lady. Get real! Work is supposed to be hard, that&#8217;s why you get paid!&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>And then you start worrying&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Maybe his mindset is holding ME back in business&#8230;&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Or even worse:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Maybe I&#8217;m outgrowing this relationship.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;ve got good (and bad) news for you:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re the only thing in your own way and you DON&#8217;T need to separate in order to elevate.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Even better?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I got to speak with one of my business mentors about this very topic.<\/p>\n<p>Enter Denise Duffield-Thomas, founder of <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/LB\/Jenev\/\">www.luckybitch.com<\/a>, who is a self-made millionaire and spoke with me about this\u00a0common struggle she hears about in her community all the time.<\/p>\n<p>Denise shares openly her experience as the visionary dreamer in her relationship, and how she&#8217;s handled it along the way.<\/p>\n<p>The interview is below.<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed wp-block-embed-youtube is-type-video is-provider-youtube epyt-figure\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\"  style=\"display: block; margin: 0px auto;\"  id=\"_ytid_36026\"  width=\"480\" height=\"270\"  data-origwidth=\"480\" data-origheight=\"270\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/OMUhBIhd5pk?enablejsapi=1&autoplay=0&cc_load_policy=0&cc_lang_pref=&iv_load_policy=1&loop=0&modestbranding=0&rel=1&fs=1&playsinline=0&autohide=2&theme=dark&color=red&controls=1&\" class=\"__youtube_prefs__  no-lazyload\" title=\"YouTube player\"  allow=\"fullscreen; accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen data-no-lazy=\"1\" data-skipgform_ajax_framebjll=\"\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/figure>\n<p>Denise discusses her incredible program, the <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\">Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp<\/a>\u00a0in this interview, which I&#8217;m a proud member of.<\/p>\n<p>She discusses her\u00a0launch that happened in 2015 when we recorded this interview.<\/p>\n<p>Check out Denise&#8217;s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbmc\/Jenev\/\">FREE Manifesting\u00a0Course<\/a><\/strong> to clear your money blocks and open yourself up to receive.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbmc\/Jenev\/\">Get your free Manifesting Course Here.<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><em><strong>TRANSCRIPT:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Hello, everybody! This is Jenev Caddell of MyBestRelationship.com.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I am over the moon thrilled to be speaking today with Denise Duffield-Thomas, who many of you, I am sure, probably already know all about Denise. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Denise Duffield-Thomas is the Money Mindset Mentor for the New Wave of Online Female Entrepreneurs. Her best-selling books, <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2dpe5YC\"><i>Lucky Bitch<\/i><\/a> and\u00a0<i><a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2cQO6CV\">Get Rich Lucky Bitch<\/a>,<\/i> give a fresh and funny roadmap to creating an outrageously successful life and business. Denise helps women release their fear of money, receive premium prices for their services, and take back control over their finances. Denise is an award-winning speaker, an author, and an entrepreneur who helps women transform their economy class money mindset into a first-class life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">You can find Denise at LuckyBitch.com. I strongly suggest that you do; she has got so many amazing things on her website.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Denise, I cannot express to you enough how excited I am to speak with you and connect with you, and how grateful I am for your time today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh, thank you, Jenev! I\u2019m really thrilled, this topic is really juicy, and I think we have some awesome little tips for your audience. So thank you so much for inviting me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Thank you so much for being here. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I\u2019ve gone through your <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\"><strong><em>Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp<\/em><\/strong><\/a> a couple of times since I joined a couple of years ago.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s totally changed, I mean it\u2019s just changed\u2026just following you and watching you and watching your upgrades along the way \u2013 it\u2019s just totally changed me and I\u2019m sure so many of the fellow students or Lucky B\u2019s as we call ourselves in the community. You\u2019re such a role model and such a mentor to so many of us. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">One thing that I think really sets you apart from many of the other women entrepreneurs out there, is that you talk about the relationship changes that might occur along the way. So, I\u2019m really, really, really excited to speak to you about this topic, about how to manage, how to continue to have a strong relationship with your significant other as you go through the upgrades, as you go through the personal growth, and as you go through the mindset upgrades around money as an entrepreneur. So thank you for speaking out about that topic and for sharing it with me today as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Well, Jenev, it\u2019s perfect timing, too, because I\u2019m in the process of re-recording new video content for the next version of <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\"><strong><em>Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp<\/em><\/strong><\/a>. I knew I had to put a module in there about your partner\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Awesome.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u2026your relationship, and it turned into one of the longest modules because it\u2019s something that women use as an excuse, that we have a lot of fears around, and actually it does take some partnership, you know it takes some working together to do it. So, yeah, we\u2019re going to have some juicy stuff to talk about today, for sure!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes, and Denise, I just appreciate your message around that. You\u2019ve spoken about the importance of communication and talking with your partner. I think there\u2019s so many messages out there, that say, we\u2019re supposed to just do it alone. So many women just say, well, he\u2019s negative, I\u2019m going to cut him off and that\u2019s the end. It seems to me, just from what I\u2019ve heard of yours, is that you take a different attitude. You really\u2026correct me if I\u2019m wrong here\u2026but you, it\u2019s like you were just saying, it does take a partnership, yes?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh, absolutely! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So, someone in <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\">the Bootcamp<\/a> said today, \u201cMy husband is my biggest money block,\u201d and I was like, \u201cno girlfriend, no no no, that\u2019s not true at all. Somebody else cannot be your money block. You have to dig deeper. What are you making that mean? Because your dreams are way too important just to say, \u201coh, he\u2019s my money block, he can\u2019t do it\u201d because <i>you<\/i> are your money block. \u00a0And really, this is your money block, it\u2019s what goes on here [points between ears]. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I have seen real, I mean huge transformations in peoples\u2019 relationships because they\u2019ve realized that you can\u2019t change somebody else, you can\u2019t manifest for somebody else. You have to take responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings around money. And, then, you can have conversations with them about their stuff, but you have to be the role model.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I used to get frustrated about this because I have always had big dreams. Always big dreams. And when Mark and I first got together, I was 23 and he was 19. So he was a bit my toy boy, right? There have been times in our relationship when I thought, \u201cI wish he would do\u2026x,y,z.\u201d But I was the one with the big vision for our life. So you have to be the one that drives it forward. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It sucks sometimes when you want someone else to do it, but if you\u2019ve got a big dream for your life, then guess what, girlfriend? It\u2019s going to come down to <i>you.<\/i> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">You can co-create with your partner, and there are some tips we can talk about today. No one else is going to do it. You have to do it. And that\u2019s the good and the bad news, right? When you just let yourself do it. It\u2019s actually quite empowering when you just go, \u201cOh, I\u2019m not going to wait for him. He\u2019s not going to be my excuse anymore. I\u2019m going to move forward, let\u2019s do this.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Usually, hopefully, if you\u2019ve got a great partner, they will come along\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Why wouldn\u2019t they want to?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Absolutely! But you\u2019re not waiting for them, and you\u2019re not using them as your excuse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes, absolutely. And I guess I wanted to ask you, Denise, what you would suggest \u2013 I know one of the most common complaints that comes up is that your partner\u2019s too negative, your partner has a scarcity mindset, he or she just sort of is not open to manifesting or to the kind of growth that we\u2019re talking about a lot of times in the online community. What do you suggest to women who say, my husband\u2019s so negative and all that good stuff?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I hear it all the time.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I know!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">People think that, because I\u2019m the Lucky Bitch, I must have a perfect relationship and all that kind of stuff. Really, when I started working on my own personal growth, not even just about money, I realized that I was trying to make him my mastermind buddy. I was trying to, I wanted him to read all the books I was reading and I would get really annoyed when he didn\u2019t. I wanted him to come to seminars, \u201cCome to the seminar, come to this.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Then what I realized was that he didn\u2019t need to have the same level of transformation that I did. He was actually really good with the Cliff\u2019s Notes. But I was trying to force him to be something that he wasn\u2019t. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So everyone\u2019s going to have different learning styles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I realized that it could take my honey like, six months, to read a book because he might read two pages and fall asleep. That\u2019s just him. That\u2019s totally fine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So I said, well, this is my responsibility, because I need get rid of some of my stuff, right? So I worked on myself first, and then just gave him the top-line stuff. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I actually did have a conversation around language, because language is so important, right, when it comes to talking about money, or your relationship, or anything. So I said to him, \u201cI\u2019m going to set myself a challenge. I\u2019m going to stop talking negatively about money. Here are some things that I\u2019m going to stop saying in our relationship. \u2018I can\u2019t afford it.\u2019 You know, \u2018We don\u2019t have the money.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So I started changing my language, and he picked up on that. But then, I said to him, \u201cYou know what, babe? When we say things like that,\u201d and I got really vulnerable, \u201cit triggers some stuff that I remember from being a kid.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">And I started talking to him about some of the exercises that I\u2019ve been doing, like looking at my money memories, looking at the different things that happened in my childhood around money. I started in a very very low pressure way, so I asked him, \u201cDid you get pocket money as a kid? What do you remember about money as a kid?\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">We\u2019d do it in very low pressure situations like maybe when we were driving, or when we were walking around. It wasn\u2019t like, \u201cLet\u2019s get down and do these money memory exercises together, because Denise said we have to do it!\u201d It was just like opening up a conversation and allowing us both to be vulnerable and realizing where some of that stuff came from. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">You know, like maybe we really did hear our parents say, \u201cWe can\u2019t afford that,\u201d a thousand times as a child, like literally. That compounds over time, right? <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Then I just asked him, like, \u201cOh, let\u2019s not say that. Let\u2019s not say that.&#8221; \u00a0And it became &#8211; we started\u00a0putting together pattern interruptors so, I started wearing an elastic band around my wrist, every time &#8211; ooh ouch! [snaps band on wrist] &#8211;\u00a0Every time I said something like that, like \u201cWe can\u2019t afford it,\u201d I\u2019d go, \u201cOh! Not going to say that anymore.\u201d He picked up on that, without me saying, \u201cYou are wrong! Stop saying stuff like that.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I have to admit I did say that once. I was like, \u201cBabe, no. Shut that shit down.\u201d But we\u2019re not saying that anymore. I\u2019m not saying that anymore, you\u2019re not saying that anymore. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It was a process, but I gave up wanting him to be perfect. I actually just focused on what <i>I<\/i> was saying about money, or what <i>I<\/i> was putting out there. He absolutely was influenced by it, but we could have the conversations as well. Not in a \u201cyou\u2019re doing this wrong\u201d way but like, \u201cBabe, you\u2019re really triggering some of my real deep fears about money when you say that. Can you please, try not to say it?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I think absolutely, just the way that you\u2019re talking about being able to be vulnerable about it, and really be a partner with him, as opposed to like a parent, which happens all the time, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Instead of really owning those more difficult, vulnerable feelings, a lot of times people short-circuit up into the \u201cnyah, nyah, nyah \u2013 Read this book!\u201d and, you know, all of that. I just love your example and just sharing that with us \u2013 I think it\u2019s just awesome. And it\u2019s worked, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It <i>has<\/i> worked. Nobody\u2018s perfect around it, but we have the language now to call each other on our stuff.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">One ritual that we started changed our lives. It was a nightly gratitude ritual. We would just ask each other, again in a very low pressure way, \u201cWhat are you grateful for?\u201d Or, before we go to bed, I would just say, \u201cI am so grateful for where we live.\u201d We don\u2019t live in a great place, or anything like that. We didn\u2019t have a lot. It was like, \u201cI am so grateful for your job, that is helping me build this business. And I\u2019m so grateful for this fledgling business that\u2019s going to help us have a great life. And I\u2019m so greatful for the dreams that we have.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">You know, even if you think, \u201cAh, there\u2019s not a lot to be grateful for,\u201d be grateful for the things that are\u00a0starting to happen. And\u00a0that, in itself, is a massive shift to change both of our relationships to money, and it\u2019s also a great thing to do before you go to sleep. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Just how loving and grateful you feel towards each other, too, it\u2019s an amazing exercise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">You\u2019re not asking him to cast some spells, or do some beads, or whatever, it\u2019s just like something really\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Do a dream board\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev: <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u2026do a dream board, right, asking him to start meditating for thirty minutes a day, anything like that, it\u2019s just something so simple. Even just doing it yourself and saying that, it just feels good to hear, right? For him, I\u2019m sure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It feels good, absolutely. It feels good to say it and feels good to hear. He\u2019s got his own money stuff as well. He\u2019s had situations happen to him in his life where, your partner has got their\u00a0own money stuff. It\u2019s not going to happen by you forcing him to read a personal development book. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yeah, right, totally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Well, can I ask you a question about your relationship and how has your relationship grown as a result of you really developing this incredible business? Because I know you\u2019ve been so transparent about your journey from starting off, and your first website, and all that, to where you are now. How\u2019s that affected your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yeah, a great, juicy question.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So I think it\u2019s really important to surround yourself with other women who are doing similar stuff, so in my mastermind women, it\u2019s probably about half-half between people who are married to entrepreneurs and people who are married to guys \u2026 I\u2019m sorry, not entrepreneurs, people who depend on their other income dynamic. So half of them earn more than their husband and the other half is the other way around. So some of them are married to guys who are in corporate, and some of them are married to guys who are ferns and live as a house husband. So I kind of really just watched and saw, to say what problems have you guys had, what conversations have you had to have.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I remember early on saying to Mark, \u201cWould you be okay if I earned more than you?\u201d and he was like, \u201cOf course, of course, I\u2019d love it.\u201d And I\u2019m like, \u201cReally, seriously? Let\u2019s have a conversation about it, I mean, could there be anything.\u201d He\u2019s like, \u201cNo, no, no.\u201d And I said, \u201cJust humor me. Like, humor me. Could we just have a chat about it because I\u2019ve got some fears around it, I\u2019ve got fears that if I had more than you, you\u2019d leave me, or we would have lots of fights about money, or you would feel emasculated, or you would have an affair.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">We did some talking about all those fears, because most of the time, we\u2019re not holding ourselves back because we don\u2019t know how to do something, we\u2019re not holding ourselves back because we don\u2019t know how to write a blog post, or even with people who are trying to find a partner, you\u2019re not scared about putting an intimate dating profile together, you\u2019re scared of the implications of that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">We constantly have the conversation because now I do earn more than Mark. It might change again, things might happen, but I was like, \u201cI\u2019ll just keep on checking in with you, would you be cool, would you be cool if I earned twice as much as I am earning now? Really, what do you think about that? What fears have we got?\u201d \u2013 just been in constant conversation because, you know, it does shift, it does shift things. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">In those early days, the thing that I had to get over was feeling guilty that he was earning the money and I wasn\u2019t. But I had to constantly paint a picture for him, of \u201cthis is why I\u2019m working really hard, and this is why I need to invest in that course. This is why I\u2019m working on my personal development. This is why I\u2019m reading books on the weekend instead of wanting to go to the beach \u2013 because it\u2019s creating something that will enhance our lives, because it will allow us to have kids, and still do the things we want to do.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I was painting a picture for him very, very early on. So those times when you feel like, \u201cwell, maybe you should just get a job, if it\u2019s stressing you out so much, maybe you should just get a job.\u201d It\u2019s like, \u201cno, this is the vision that we\u2019ve got for the future.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So it goes both ways, right? It could be tricky at the beginning, and it can be tricky when you actually are making handsome money. So the trick is constant communication and vulnerability. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yeah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s okay to go there and look at the negative side. You don\u2019t always have to be, \u201cOh, it\u2019s going to be perfect, everything\u2019s going to be great.\u201d Maybe some things could come up, let\u2019s talk about that.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Right, and then you\u2019re able to actually go for it, because you\u2019re ruling things out. I think a lot of the times, we all tend to go on autopilot in different ways in our lives, and to really come and go underneath the surface. To look what\u2019s there, just allows people to go that much further. So I just love that. I just love that, how you guys have been talking about it throughout.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Now, I have another question from somebody in my community, if that\u2019s okay. It just reminds me of what you\u2019re saying.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">What about when someone is sort of starting off, and they have to kind of keep reminding their partner, and their partner maybe freaks out, or maybe they want to invest the money in their business and they don\u2019t really have business money yet to invest, it\u2019s shared money. Do you have any suggestions about how somebody might be able to handle that with their partner?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I think it\u2019s not just painting a picture for them, it\u2019s painting a picture for you, so you can feel strong, that you\u2019re doing the right thing and it\u2019s for something, and that you don\u2019t feel guilty every time that you want to spend some money on your business.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">The other thing is to know that they are not going through the same journey as you. So maybe they haven\u2019t seen examples of people who have been successful in your field of work. Maybe that\u2019s alien to them. You\u2019re reading the blogs, you\u2019re doing the courses. You\u2019re reading books and constantly reinforcing to yourself that you\u2019re making a good decision. But they might not be going through that. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So the thing that I did, I remember, anytime somebody in my community had a big success, I\u2019d be like, \u201cOh my God, come and take a look at this woman. This is what she\u2019s doing in her business and look, they just bought a house, or she\u2019s been able to quit her job, or they\u2019ve just gone on a family holiday because she\u2019s got a business.\u201d I would just show those success stories, constantly. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Then, I was thinking, \u201cwell, I want to be one of those success stories too.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So last year Mark went to the World Cup in Brazil, you know, and that was an expensive trip, and I paid for all of that. I just said I\u2019m going to pay for this entire trip, because this is the,<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>not your reward, but just to say thank you for those early days. It\u2019s not like he believed in me all the time, he was trying to get me to take a job, like, all the time. Like, \u201cmaybe just a part time job, right?\u201d and \u201cNo!\u201d And we would sacrifice holidays, we would sacrifice nights out, because it was for something. It was so great.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">A lot of people in my community sort of went, \u201cI\u2019m going to tell my husband about that, because he\u2019s going to get it now.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">And I\u2019m so glad, yeah.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">That you could spend money on things for him, in return. It\u2019s just like, \u201cOh my God, Denise\u2019s business is doing so well she sent her husband on an all expenses trip to the World Cup.\u201d Like, \u201cdo you get it now?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Absolutely, I\u2019m so glad that you shared that with us because, just knowing\u2026in the beginning it\u2019s really difficult to gain traction for a lot of people, and to actually start having an income from the business. So to know that he was encouraging you to go out and get a job, and you just kind of believed in yourself and you stayed fast to the dream and now you\u2019re sending him off to the World Cup. Not bad!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh, absolutely! And the other thing that comes with having money, we just bought a house. All this kind of stuff has come from the business. But, here\u2019s the thing. Those early days, we did sacrifice stuff a lot. I did say, this is for our future. So let\u2019s cancel that magazine subscription. Let\u2019s not go out tonight. Let\u2019s, let\u2019s\u2026I made it not like we\u2019re sacrificing, but this is for our future. This is something that we\u2019re doing together, for our future.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">We made it kind of exciting to do that. Constantly going, \u201cthis is for our future, this is for our future.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">The other thing that I constantly reminded him as well, is \u201chappy wife, happy life.\u201d I would say, \u201cBabe, do you remember when I\u2019d come home and I\u2019d be so depressed about work and how much I just burned to have my own business? Do you remember how every Sunday night I would just get really quiet and unhappy?\u201d It makes me always tear up thinking about it, right? I was like, \u201cDo you remember how unhappy I was, not living my purpose? Thank you so much for believing in me, that this is happening.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Even though he didn\u2019t 100% believe in me, I was speaking it out loud as if it was true, and it was like, \u201cThank you so much for supporting me 100%, I just so appreciate you believing in me.\u201d So he was cool, \u201cOh, yeah okay, cool\u2026yeah I do believe in you.\u201d \u201cThanks so much, Babe,\u201d like really laying it on, too. Almost to speak into reality what I wanted to see into being. Constantly. And you have to be on it mentally. Don\u2019t let yourself think, \u201cwell, maybe I should\u2026.\u201d It\u2019s like, no, no, this is our future. Happy wife, happy life. Just keep on repeating that to him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">That\u2019s so good, that\u2019s so good, and it\u2019s the whole thing. Acting as if, and you come from a place of honoring the parts of him that did believe in you, and bringing that out and laying it on thick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I love it, Denise, that\u2019s such great advice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I know you have a juicy announcement for us. Can I ask you one quick question before you share that with us?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">What?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">What would you say is the number one tip that you have for communicating or connecting with your partner who may not understand necessarily, right? I mean, you just shared with us so many, but what would you say is the top tip for our viewers to see in terms of staying strong in love as you grow your business?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes, it could just be the mantra that \u201cthis is for our future.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Got it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cThis is for our future.\u201d And actually, no, this is a core one too. It\u2019s about gratitude, but it\u2019s one that resonates with me, obviously, but just keep on saying, \u201cwe\u2019re so lucky.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Mmmmm.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">We say it every day. I say, \u201cwe\u2019re so lucky to live in this country.\u201d \u201cWe\u2019re so lucky that we have this opportunity.\u201d When I come off into views like this, I always think, \u201cWe\u2019re so lucky to have this technology, because we speak to his family in England, and it\u2019s quite. And so I\u2019m constantly mindful of saying how lucky we are. \u201cWe\u2019re so lucky that I can build a business and stay home with our baby.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">It\u2019s really a big thing for any goal or dream, but constantly reinforcing that helps us focus on the gratitude, it helps us focus on positivity and that positive language, and what you focus on improves, right? Together as a couple, even you can just say to him, \u201cI am so lucky that you are my husband.\u201d \u201cWe\u2019re so lucky that we\u2019ve got each other.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">That would just change everything, more than saying, \u201cHere\u2019s this money book, read it!\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">That\u2019s going to make things worse, totally!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Absolutely! That would transform it, if that\u2019s the only thing you take from this interview. That would transform not only your business but your relationship, and it would transform his ability to support you and everything. It would be truly transformational.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh, that\u2019s such good stuff. And there\u2019s been studies that shows that\u2019s actually one of the ingredients for a happy marriage, business or not. So, I just love that. That\u2019s so awesome, Denise.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Well why don\u2019t you\u2026 I\u2019ve been a <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\">Lucky Bitch student<\/a> for almost two years now, and it\u2019s rocked my world. I know you have some really exciting changes in the works. Can you share with us what\u2019s going on with that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes, there\u2019s something that I teach in the Bootcamp is the concept of incremental upgrades, upgrading everything as you go. And that doesn\u2019t mean spending more and more money, it actually means refining your life to be how you want it, and creating your first-class life. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So I like to role model that myself, and so I am in the process of upgrading the Money Bootcamp.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">When I first started it, I thought, \u201cwow, imagine if I could have a hundred women going through this course,\u201d and we\u2019re getting close to 2,000 now. You\u2019ve got to start where you are, you\u2019ve got to start imperfectly. My first version of it, I don\u2019t know if you were in it when I had the very hand-made, handouts for the assignments.\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I don\u2019t know.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">No, no, you probably weren\u2019t. So we\u2019re in process of making that even more beautiful and upgrading it, and adding lots of different things. Since I\u2019ve recorded the last videos, I\u2019ve learned a lot more about how you can create abundance, and there are a lot more tips to help women overcome some of the money blocks that they do, including putting in a whole module around your partner\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Awesome!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u2026and actually I just put in a module or two about how to talk to your kids about money.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh! I\u2019m so excited!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes, I\u2019m really excited about that one, too. That one\u2019s a really juicy one. So, of course, when I upgrade things, I like to give people an opportunity. I really actually, to be really honest, like giving people a kick up the butt,\u00a0especially if they\u2019ve been fanciers for a long time. So the price is going up with this new upgrade, and it\u2019s pretty much doubling in price. I like to role model that as well, to upgrade your prices.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">But, to anyone who joins before the 23<\/span><span class=\"s2\"><sup>rd<\/sup><\/span><span class=\"s1\"> of July, and that\u2019s the deadline for the new price, you can join at the current price, you get access to the course and all the bonuses, and all that kind of stuff, plus, you will be automatically upgraded for free into the new course, which launches in October.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So, you can still start now, start working on your money blocks now, and then you can just get all the upgrades\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><em>[***this interview is from July, 2015. The good news is that for the first time in YEARS, Denise is RE-LAUNCHING the course but with a LIVE Q &amp; A!! \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\">Sign up by October 27, 2016<\/a> to have access to the LIVE round of The Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp!!**\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh, awesome!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">\u2026upgrades later on. So that\u2019s the deal. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I love giving people a specific deadline. The people who\u2019ve been joining this week, it\u2019s actually been hilarious. People have been saying, \u201cI have been looking at this for two years, and I know I\u2019ve been needing to work on my money blocks for two years. And now you\u2019ve finally given me the boot up the butt to do it.\u201d So, yeah, don\u2019t wait. Working on your money stuff is way too important. It\u2019s important for you and your family and your children and all that kind of stuff.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">So, if you know you do have some blocks around success and money, then make sure you join in. We have an amazing community. Myself and Jenev are both in the community. <a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\">Come and join us<\/a>! <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Jenev, do you have a special link there below, as well?<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Yes, I\u2019ll be posting a special link below. (<em><a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbb\/Jenev\/\">here&#8217;s your link to join<\/a><\/em>)<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">We haven\u2019t really talked too much about the community here, but Denise has just created the most amazing community of some of the coolest women out there, and it\u2019s a really great place. People get support around the partner issue all the time in the community. Instead of psyching up your partner to read <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2duyFmr\"><em>Think and Grow Rich<\/em><\/a>\u00a0or whatever it is, you can turn to each other. I can\u2019t recommend this program enough. It\u2019s changed my life. Thank you, really, Denise, you\u2019ve just\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Oh, absolutely. You know, it\u2019s so funny too, there\u2019s nothing between us that we haven\u2019t experienced when it comes to our relationships. I think there have been so many different flavors, and everyone\u2019s had their own challenges. That\u2019s the beauty of the community, is there\u2019s nothing we haven\u2019t seen.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">And it\u2019s really the most supportive and positive group of women. Denise, you\u2019ve done such an incredible job, and I\u2019m so grateful to you, Denise, for everything I\u2019ve learned from you, like, really, your transparency and role model and, I could go on. I was like, \u201cOh, I can\u2019t believe I\u2019m\u00a0talking to Denise! I&#8217;m talking to a famous person today, everybody leave&#8230;!&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">No, I\u2019m not\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Absolutely, that\u2019s the beauty of this, right, that all of us can do this. When you get out of your own way and realize that you are enough. That it\u2019s okay for you to be exactly who you are, and create a first-class life. <i>Your<\/i> version of a first-class life, not Donald Trump\u2019s life, or, you know, someone outside, but <i>your version<\/i> of a first-class life and everything that\u2019s important to you. To have all the money for all the things you want to be, do, and have in the world. That\u2019s the key, that you are enough. You are perfect exactly the way you are. And you\u2019re allowed to have money, and you\u2019re allowed to have an abundant life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">I love it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Denise, thank you so much. I\u2019m very excited, and I hope that anybody watching we\u2019ll see you in the <a href=\"http:\/\/amzn.to\/2duyFmr\">Lucky Bitch Money Bootcamp<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">All right, it\u2019s a beautiful community in there and we\u2019ll see you in there, guys.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Jenev:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Thank you, Denise! Bye! Mwah!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Denise:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><span class=\"s1\">Bye, have a happy day!<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><em>Don&#8217;t forget to grab Denise&#8217;s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbmc\/Jenev\/\">FREE Manifesting\u00a0Course<\/a><\/strong> to clear your money blocks and open yourself up to receive.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/yu103.isrefer.com\/go\/lbmc\/Jenev\/\">GET YOUR FREE MANIFESTING COURSE HERE.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8212; Special Video Interview Below &#8212; Are you an entrepreneur obsessed with personal growth and your spouse just doesn&#8217;t seem to get it? You&#8217;re all, &#8220;Thoughts become things! Your mindset has everything to do with success! Let&#8217;s make a vision board together!!&#8221; He&#8217;s all, &#8220;You are some kind of crazy lady. Get real! 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