Today I have a video for you to explain why communication skills aren’t nearly as important as you might think to create your best relationship.
Here’s the thing:
A thriving relationship is built on a strong emotional bond.
All the communication skills in the world aren’t going to help you if you are disconnected from your partner emotionally. When you and your partner cannot reach each other, what’s desperately needed is an emotional connection, because your brain is going into what neuroscientists call a “primal panic,” whether you realize it or not.
Communication skills fly out the window when you’re in this primal panic because you’re essentially in a sort of survival mode and that left, logical side of your brain that uses communication skills is being overrun by more primal, emotional and survival oriented parts of your brain.
Watch my video to learn more:
When partners can’t connect emotionally, their relationship tends to get held hostage by one of three negative patterns.
As promised in the video, here is a link to see if your relationship is caught up in one of these destructive patterns.
Let me know in the comments what you think or if you have any questions.
Cheers to thriving in business & love,
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