I’m having a hard time writing this post, because as of this writing there are thousands of children being separated from their parents at the U.S. border and I feel paralyzed. I’m having a hard time focusing, truly feeling frozen and flooded at the same time. Girls and maybe boys are being raped, parents are […]
Heartache
This Fact Will Help You Love More
Every year on the anniversary of 9/11/01, if you’re like many people, you think about where you were, what you were doing, who you were with… Emotional memories stay with us forever. We learn with emotion, because emotion tells us something is significant, so it gets etched even deeper into our brains and memories. Even […]
Time heals all wounds?
One of my biggest pet peeves is the idea that “time heals all wounds,” especially as it relates to injuries in relationships. These four words have caused so many couples so much damage, it’s about time we debunked this myth of time being the cure all for every problem. FORGIVENESS heals wounds, not […]
When you think your partner’s having an affair
Think your partner’s having an affair? This post is for you. Secrecy, mysterious disappearances, suddenly deleted cell phone history, more and more time spent away from home, fake or double social media accounts – these are all possible signs that your partner may be having an affair. This post is not about signs that your […]
When You’ve Never Had Good Role Models In Love
I hear it all the time, “we just haven’t had good role models in love.” You may be worried you’re doomed to a lifetime of unfulfilling, unhealthy and perhaps toxic relationships. Even worse, maybe you’ve found someone who appears to be the love of your life, but you just can’t figure out how to connect. […]
Love and Politics – What to Do with This Stress on Your Country, World and Relationship
Love and Politics Love and politics – what to do… Ever wake up from a dream and want to go back to sleep because the world you’re living in feels like a nightmare? That’s what many are experiencing as they watch the news or social media with horrifying acts one after the other unraveling at […]
