When You’re Thinking About Decluttering Your Relationship Have you binge watched the Marie Kondo Netflix series on the magic of tidying up yet? If you’re like me, you’ve been flooded with notifications and emails about it, and maybe you’ve been talking about it too. Admittedly I haven’t watched the new series, but I read the […]
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The Must Read Book To Improve And Deepen Your Relationship
10 years ago on a Saturday afternoon in late April, I settled into a window seat of an Irish bar, overlooking 2nd Ave in the East Village, with a Guinness in one hand, and the teal, hardcover book by Dr. Sue Johnson, Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love, in the other. […]
Ashamed For Wanting More
She was drowning in her own emotional soup. Julie looked at John and tried to express her conflicting feelings, her ability to know better how she SHOULD feel, yet her difficulty in feeling that way… She tried and wound up with a message that fell flat. He just heard how much he let her down. […]
What To Do When A Difficult Family Member Impacts Your Marriage
Do you have a difficult family member who seems to be driving your marriage apart? The holidays are a fertile time for issues around difficult family members to come up, but truly, a difficult family member can impact your marriage any time of year, if you’ll allow it to. This post discusses what to do […]
4 Words To Improve Any Relationship (or anything, really)
So you want to improve your relationship. Something’s not working. Maybe you’re feeling unloved in your marriage, and you’re really struggling. Maybe you’re experiencing classic danger signs in a any relationship and aren’t sure what to do. I’m writing this post not to minimize whatever distress you’re going through, but to help you shift your […]
What To Do When Feeling Invisible In Marriage
What do you do when you’re feeling invisible in your marriage? “I feel invisible in my marriage,” she said. “Like he doesn’t even see me.” Kate does so much for her family and doesn’t ask for much in return. She runs a busy kennel and an even busier household with 10 and 12 year old […]
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