Limbo in love (or business or anything really) can be a very difficult place to be. The uncertainty of being “on the fence” is unsettling for just about anyone. A solid and secure romantic relationship is like a safe haven, but when it’s threatened, everything about life becomes more difficult, and it can be hard […]
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Reflect on THIS for a better life
Fourteen years ago on September 12, 2001, I walked my typical route to work from 14th Street and Avenue A up to the Empire State Building where my office was. The building was dark, desolate, and eerily quiet for a Wednesday morning. Few of us showed up to work that day. The Empire State Building was […]
5 Things You Know About Love That You’ve Learned are NOT Okay (even though they are) – Part 5
This is the final post of a five-part series on what you know about love that you’ve learned is not okay, and why what you’ve learned is wrong. Love is the best thing out there. You biz owners are hustling for money, I get it, you’ve got to pay your bills. I do too! I […]
5 Things You Know About Love That You’ve Learned are NOT Okay (even though they are) – Part 4
This is the fourth of a five-part series on what you know about love that you’ve learned is not okay, and why what you’ve learned is wrong. We are not only responsible for ourselves. Similar to last week’s post, there is a myth that we’re only responsible for ourselves. You’ve got the wrong message from […]
5 Things You Know About Love That You’ve Learned are NOT Okay (even though they are) – Part 3
This is the third of a five-part series on what you know about love that you’ve learned is not okay, and why what you’ve learned is wrong. Sometimes our partners MAKE us feel a certain way. Going out on a limb with this one, people! (Sometimes you gotta push the envelope to actually be heard. […]
5 Things You Know About Love That You’ve Learned are NOT Okay (even though they are) – Part 2
This is the second of a five-part series on love, what’ you’ve learned is not okay in love, and why what you’ve learned is wrong. Attention, love, affection, appreciation – do a body good. “You shouldn’t care about what others think about you.” I grew up hearing this, and for the most part, I never did […]