The question comes up a lot: How do I deal with negative people in my life? The common advice is to just cut them out. Get rid of them. Step away from toxic people. I’m sure you’ve heard that you’re the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with, so why hang […]
Responsibility
Why you need to understand your emotions to be better at everything you do
Why it’s key to understand your emotions I’m assuming if you’ve found your way here you want more from your life. Likely an improved relationship, greater success, satisfaction, joy or an unwavering sense of inner peace. Maybe you want something external, like a gorgeous ski-on-ski-off chalet in the Swiss Alps, but at the end of […]
The Gratitude Trap
The gratitude trap is extremely dangerous. It can prevent you from rising to a new levels of joy, success and fulfillment. It can keep you stuck in adequacy or mediocrity. In some situations, it can also be lethal. What is the gratitude trap? Have you ever stopped yourself from wanting something and thought, “I should […]
RelationTip Tuesday – The Inevitable Part of Your Relationship
This week is about an inevitable part of your relationship – something tying back to a RelationTip about being too nice! Press play to find out what I mean.
What’s beneath her anger
Ever wonder why your significant other rages at you, and not sure what to do? This breaks down what may be beneath her anger. And, also importantly, what you can do about it. Ever glance at your wife as you’re spacing off thinking about something totally unrelated to her, like what you’re going to eat for […]
Is My Marriage Doomed?
Well meaning people out of the blue often reach out to me anonymously and share a few sentences about their relationship and then ask me: “Is my marriage doomed?” I’m not even a psychic nor do I pretend to be one. Even psychics will tell you that ultimately you have free will regardless of your destiny. […]