“We just need help with communication problems” …said every person who stepped into couple’s therapy ever. People ask for tools, tips and tricks. I haven’t heard this one yet but I’m sensing someone will soon ask me for a “communication hack.” Here’s a little secret: The solution you’re looking for isn’t about learning how to communicate. […]
Change/Growth
When Santa’s Not The Only One With Secrets
Let’s talk Secrets in your relationship. There are big secrets and there are little secrets. Obvious secrets and not so obvious ones. Good secrets – like that gift you’re hiding for your honey – and not so good secrets. I’m all for the good ones, but let’s talk about the others. Sometimes, the big ones […]
When there’s too much to juggle
Ever feel like there is simply too much to juggle? As busy entrepreneurs or career driven professionals, we want to have it all. Many of us know we can’t DO it all, so we become proficient at getting support. Even so, there are some things that NO ONE can do in place of us, and […]
Stuck And Disconnected In Love
Something doesn’t feel right in your relationship? Feeling stuck and disconnected? As a successful person this is not your norm. You want to live fully and a connected and satisfying relationship is part of that. Yet something’s not working. What to do? Quit blaming yourself, first of all. Few have learned to get this area […]
5 Ways Gratitude Helps With Everything
Gratitude helps with everything. It is always an answer. And while it feels to me that everywhere I turn I find someone singing the praises of gratitude, I will add my voice to the choir, again and again, because it is perhaps the most easy and direct route toward happiness in any area of your life. In […]
Do you have this super skill for relationship success?
Today I’m going to share with you a skill that can go a long way toward relationship success: Slowing down time. I could spend an hour speaking with a distressed couple about a 30 second exchange, because so much happens in those 30 seconds that we aren’t even aware of. How does any progress get made, you […]