John Bowlby was a pioneering British psychologist whose work became well known over 50 years ago. BEFORE I LOSE YOU, stick with me. This has to do with your freedom. Bowlby became known for his work in “attachment,” which is basically the emotional connection between a child and parent. He found that when a child […]
Happy Relationships
You Deserve A Relationship That Feels Easy
“Don’t let the sound of your own wheels drive you crazy.” – Jackson Browne & Glenn Frey Feel free to replace “relationship” with “BUSINESS,” “LIFE,” “JOB,” or anything else important to you. I’m not saying it IS easy, and it doesn’t ALWAYS feel easy, that’s for sure, but if it’s all stop and go and […]
Our Task As Humans; Your Task In Love
Really just writing freely here today about something that I think is really important and helps us look at wellness in another way. Our task as humans and your task in love is to do this: Integrate. We’re all ONE, right? We’re in one super hologram? The Universe is a giant mirror of what’s inside […]
Pull The Plug and Recharge Your Relationship
The other night I was furiously working on my laptop in the living room with my husband, and he started laughing at himself. He actually had the TV on, was watching a movie on his kindle, AND was hooked into his phone. And I’m guilty too: I probably had a million browsers open, and may […]
Are You An Empath?
I will never forget one of my favorite clients of all time, let’s call her Lucy, who could so intensely feel the pain of others around her, as well as their joy, and it truly lit her up to see someone doing well or feeling well. I broke the news to her one day as […]
The Third Party in Your Relationship
The other night was more rough than usual with the kids. The girl had a cough, wasn’t sleeping, and was crying. The boy was a bit inconsolable as well, and said the next day that he was upset because she was upset (He can be so sweet. But we weren’t feeling it in the middle […]