Are you married to a slob? It’s always the same argument: Your partner leaves her crap all over the place and you feel like you’re the only one who cares enough to pick up. Sometimes you feel like the maid, picking up her dirty cups, clearing the counter, and loading the dishwasher perfectly while she […]
Love
Feeling Like Not Enough in Your Relationship
Ever find yourself feeling like not enough for your partner? And then spiral into worry about whether or not you’re right for each other? And you start freaking out about the relationship ending? First off, you’re not alone with this worry. And second? Perhaps more importantly? You’re more than enough. I know, easier for me […]
For success in love, do this
You likely want success in love. It’s something that feels good. It’s something we’re meant for. It’s part of being human, to enjoy more love in our lives and in our hearts. And, thanks to science, we know love is really good for us. The Case for Marriage is a book that demonstrates how marriage really […]
Cutting Down Your “Communication Problems”
“We just need help with communication problems” …said every person who stepped into couple’s therapy ever. People ask for tools, tips and tricks. I haven’t heard this one yet but I’m sensing someone will soon ask me for a “communication hack.” Here’s a little secret: The solution you’re looking for isn’t about learning how to communicate. […]
When Santa’s Not The Only One With Secrets
Let’s talk Secrets in your relationship. There are big secrets and there are little secrets. Obvious secrets and not so obvious ones. Good secrets – like that gift you’re hiding for your honey – and not so good secrets. I’m all for the good ones, but let’s talk about the others. Sometimes, the big ones […]
Newton’s 3rd Law And Why Your Partner Is Withdrawing
When your partner is withdrawing, what does it mean, and what do you do? I’m going to break down the good news and the bad news about your partner’s withdrawal in your relationship and what to do about it. When your partner is withdrawing, it can feel like they go numb on you, you question […]