Ever wonder why your significant other rages at you, and not sure what to do? This breaks down what may be beneath her anger. And, also importantly, what you can do about it. Ever glance at your wife as you’re spacing off thinking about something totally unrelated to her, like what you’re going to eat for […]
Love
Is My Marriage Doomed?
Well meaning people out of the blue often reach out to me anonymously and share a few sentences about their relationship and then ask me: “Is my marriage doomed?” I’m not even a psychic nor do I pretend to be one. Even psychics will tell you that ultimately you have free will regardless of your destiny. […]
Time heals all wounds?
One of my biggest pet peeves is the idea that “time heals all wounds,” especially as it relates to injuries in relationships. These four words have caused so many couples so much damage, it’s about time we debunked this myth of time being the cure all for every problem. FORGIVENESS heals wounds, not […]
When you think your partner’s having an affair
Think your partner’s having an affair? This post is for you. Secrecy, mysterious disappearances, suddenly deleted cell phone history, more and more time spent away from home, fake or double social media accounts – these are all possible signs that your partner may be having an affair. This post is not about signs that your […]
When You’ve Never Had Good Role Models In Love
I hear it all the time, “we just haven’t had good role models in love.” You may be worried you’re doomed to a lifetime of unfulfilling, unhealthy and perhaps toxic relationships. Even worse, maybe you’ve found someone who appears to be the love of your life, but you just can’t figure out how to connect. […]
Fighting About The Money
If you find yourself fighting about the money with your significant other, you’re not alone. Financial disagreements are said to be the #1 cause of divorce. My take is that it’s never really about the money, but money becomes such a sticky issue because it is so deeply connected to our security, much like love. […]