This post is for you if you are feeling helpless in your relationship, business or in the world at large. When things don’t go according to plan, or how you’d like them to, or how you think they should, or people in your life operate in a way that you don’t like, a lot of […]
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The Power of Celebration
Because of how of our brains are wired, many of us can be quick to criticize what’s wrong and neglect the celebration of what’s right. This becomes problematic because we typically get more of what we pay attention to. For example, a couple may get through a tremendously stressful experience as a united force, when […]
RelationTip Tuesday – If Your Children Are Having A Rough Time
Welcome to RelationTip Tuesday! Last week I promised you another tip for your relationship with your children. Press play to find out what you can do for your children when they’re having a rough time! How do you create a safe space for your children? Is that something you need to work on? Let me […]
The Problem with Your Imagination
“Much of what we experience in a relationship is happening only in our imagination,” — David Hawkins, from the book Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender Stay stuck inside your anxious imagination and you start living out the reality of your nightmarish fears if you have any. Example: You think your husband’s cheating on you […]
Thank Your Relationship Distress for Making You Stronger
No one wants to hear “it’s all working out for the best” when you feel alone, disappointed, betrayed, misunderstood, not listened to or disrespected in your relationship. When you feel like the rug’s been pulled out from underneath you because you caught your partner cheating, or like a knife has been stabbed through your heart. […]
What To Do When It’s Hard To Trust
Today I’m writing about what to do when it’s hard to trust your partner. I’ve been hearing about this a lot lately. When someone tells me she can’t trust her partner, it’s either because she has a hard time trusting in general (for valid reasons, whatever they may be), her partner has betrayed her trust […]